Emotional Abuse

Emotional or psychological abuse can include:

  • threatening to do something to the older adult or to something or someone the person cares about
  • mental cruelty
  • humiliation
  • forced socialization or isolation
  • treating the older adult like a child
  • not allowing the older adult to make decisions for themselves

Signs of Emotional Abuse

  • showing fear of certain family members, friends, or caregivers
  • withdrawal, passivity, agitation, anxiety, apathy, or depression without any apparent reason
  • unexplained paranoia or fears
  • physical signs of isolation
  • unusual weight gain/loss;
  • refusing to talk openly
  • making inconsistent statements
  • waiting for the caregiver to respond to questions
  • noticeable behavioural changes including avoiding eye contact
  • low self-esteem
  • difficulty sleeping or needing excessive sleep
  • making excuses for social isolation
  • being largely ignored, treated passively, or treated like a child by a caregiver

NOTE: Some of these indicators may be present and the older adult is not being abused. These are only possible signs of abuse.


For more information, see CPLEA’s Let’s talk: Elder abuse resource manual.